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The Fuck Mates Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Fuck Mates. If you have a question to ask, just enter it. Our staff will then review the question and post it below.

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_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
When the morning sun - 6/26/2008

"When the morning sun streaks across my room, and I've waken up from another dream of you."

Ever been woke up in the morning by your mate giving you oral pleasure?

It do make th day go by better it seems.

Think so?
...

16 response(s), 31 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Music - Songs That Mean Something Special - 6/26/2008

I hear the song, "Power of Love" by Celine Dionne; it brings back memories of a special friend I had many years ago. It doesn't matter where I am or what I'm doing, I always think of him when I hear the song. "Tears in Heaven".... The first time I heard that song, I was racing to Augusta, ME, with the hopes of seeing my dad before he died; I didn't make it. Ironically, I knew when I listened ...

12 response(s), 16 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Virgins?!?!? - 6/26/2008

What is the big issue with taken someone's virginity?

I have a hard time believing that some people can be so shallow that to not want to have sex with someone becuase they are a virgin and that is the only reason.

17 response(s), 19 votes
Bring_it_now555 47 M
5  questions
Ok it think I am starting to get the hang of this thing. - 6/26/2008

I have learned alot form the advice given and kindly recived. Thanks. But now I am courious as to a new subject. I understand there are all types of women ot there and to each of them have different turn on and turn off. I am just looking for some advice about oral. For some women it is the bomb and others just an appetizer. I am looking on some tips to help me improve in this area. Any advice or ...

9 response(s), 13 votes
45selim 67 M
2  questions
Follow up to my last question. - 6/26/2008

For those of you that have profiles on here and have at home, I was just wondering if you have every been caught doing something embarassing to you while chatting or camming?

10 response(s), 10 votes
45selim 67 M
2  questions
Do your know? - 6/26/2008

After being on here for a while and reading some of the profiles I got to wondering if some of us that may have in their teens or older let our know that we use sites such as this to try to find companionship. I believe that it would be easier to keep such information from younger , but not so sure about the older ones that seem to know more about pc technology than their parents do. So do your ...

12 response(s), 12 votes
ASpanishLover 59 M
1  question
¿Por qué no puedo contactar contigo? - 6/26/2008

Gracias

22 response(s), 25 votes
Married - 6/25/2008

Do many married women ever want younger men to fuck without questions?

23 response(s), 28 votes
lancebearer2002 51 M
1  question
Question for the ladies... when is enough too much - 6/25/2008

O.K. reading this months advice mag. I noticed she said that 20-30 min is plenty. Me I typicly am not satisfied till about the hour mark.(not bragging just stating a fact) I know that oral sex can aleviate some of the differences but oral for half an hour her poor mouth would be awfully sore. And her manually masterbating for that time would become dull and boring. So short of finding a woman who ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
First move. For the Ladies. - 6/25/2008

If you were attracted to a guy would you, a lady, ask the guy out, make the first move, or would you wait and let the guy make the first move?

Ladies would you also be the one to propose to a guy instead of waiting for him to ask?

17 response(s), 29 votes
66LUV 50 F
46  questions
Bachelorette Party - HELP! - 6/25/2008

Hey Everyone ... I need help!!

I am responsible for the "Scavenger Hunt" part of my future sister-in-law's Bachelorette Party. I am having difficulty trying to think of some original ideas .....

After dinner we are hitting 4 different bars that evening (they all line the streets here in Az).

The issue I am struggling with is- there's ALL different types of women that ...

19 response(s), 21 votes
can your profile be too general? - 6/25/2008

is it better to be choosy..or will that limit your responses?

12 response(s), 18 votes
rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
~ best feature ~ - 6/25/2008

what is the one thing you like most about yourself ?

is it a character trait or a physical feature ?
...

19 response(s), 17 votes
Honest people........... - 6/25/2008

Why is it that it seems that 99% of the people here say anything to attempt to get laid? Has being honest gone out of fashion?

18 response(s), 28 votes
LickLarge 46 F
1  question
Which way? - 6/25/2008

Ladies, do you prefer bi men or straight men?

17 response(s), 12 votes
kinkydreams378 43 C
2  questions
Safe or Sorry? - 6/25/2008

I am wondering how many people in the lifestyle take the extra precautions they should? We all know that when meeting a couple or a single male or females for fun it can be a little uneasy at times. Some people take offense if you ask them about STDs or even worse get mad if you should ask for any medical proof.

For us, we value our health and we are picky about who we are with. We ask ...

12 response(s), 11 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Wolf whistle! - 6/25/2008

For the guys and gals.

When was the last time you heard a sharp clear loud wolf whistle blown in your direction?

Or did you blow it yourself at someone?

What do you think about them, good or bad?
...

18 response(s), 33 votes
Orgasm with no direct stimulation - 6/25/2008

I've always known it was possible to orgasm without direct stimulation, as often those naughty dreams will result in a nice little extra buzz, but I'd never really thought about it further.

Until this morning. I was giving my partner a really juicy blowjob and just as he was starting to reach his orgasm, I was hijacked suddenly by my own.

Cue very startled face and look of ...

9 response(s), 21 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
Swing party - 6/25/2008

My friend would like me to host a swing party, but I have no idea what do to. If anyone can give me some advice on this, I would greatly appreciate it.

16 response(s), 13 votes
leashypoo 50 M
3  questions
Nair and other hair removers - 6/25/2008

I hate to shave....anyplace. I have a goatee so i can shave less of my face thank goodness i dont need to do my pits and when it comes to my Crotch i dread the whole process not to mention the careless nicks I've been wanting to try Nair or another hair remover but for some reason i think its going to burn. Can any one tell me if its ok to use, how close can i get to my butthole ...

16 response(s), 30 votes
lionsflower77 42 C
1  question
Would you let someone...... - 6/25/2008

Would you let someone blow up your phone with text messages? Or would you let that other person blow up your spouces phone...

11 response(s), 16 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Pick up lines. - 6/24/2008

Do pick up lines really work? Which ones have worked best? Which are your favorite?

14 response(s), 14 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
A quetions for all the guys out there. - 6/24/2008

Wether you are straight, bi or gay. What do you look for in a person for a LTR? What about them would first catch your eye? What is most important?

9 response(s), 15 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
A question for the ladies out there. - 6/24/2008

Wether you are straight, bi or lesbian. What do you look for in a person for a LTR? What about them would first catch your eye? What is most important?

12 response(s), 14 votes
y is it? - 6/24/2008

that when you answer ? or blogs or statments etc. that when it says you get a silver membership you have to have a confirmed id but it doesnt tell you that untill you have the points required for it

5 response(s), 4 votes
HornySatyrCam 33 M
5  questions
First Time Advice - 6/24/2008

On my first time, what advice would you give me to perform my best?

15 response(s), 14 votes
rm_ducttapegal 37 F
21  questions
Internet Vibrators!!! - 6/24/2008

I was just wanting to know if anyone has one of the new vibrators that you can connect to either a phone line or internet connection. I understand how the works but was just wondering if anyone has one and what they think about it. Or if you don't would this be something you would like to have in your bag of toys???

10 response(s), 8 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Sex, the best medicine? - 6/24/2008

At one time I worked for a moving n storage company. I loved the job but hated the work. Well I suffered a few injuries at different times to my back. these injuries still give me pain now and then, especially when the weather is in a flux state. I have noticed that when I have these pains(sometimes fairly sever) and I have an orgasm the pains immediately diminishes greatly. I think it is the ...

7 response(s), 13 votes
quathead 66 M
1  question
Here today gone tomorrow!! - 6/24/2008

It really ceases to amaze me that a person on Fuck Mates is actively in a "chat mode" one day and gone the next! Forgive me for being naive but to correspond with someone for quite a while and interact with them on , shall I say, on a personal mode for a time is a great boost to ones ego. But yep, it's like as if they were transponded to a different galaxy! Did they exist? Were they a figment of my ...

6 response(s), 16 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Are You Afraid To Die? Do You Believe There Is A Heaven? - 6/24/2008

What do you believe happens after you die? Is there a heaven? Is there a God? Religion is a touchy subject as is Politics. I was just wondering what you believe happens when you die.

I am scared of death. My father was, too. He went to see a minister as he knew he was going to die; he had cancer. After his visit with the minister, he somehow came to peace. The night before he ...

22 response(s), 27 votes