What's to say? I'm new to this, yet I've been around the block. I've had my heart broken. And I'm not perfect, I've had my role in relationships that have gone bad; I own my part. I feel like I was supposed to learn something, no matter how painful or who was at fault, by going through the experience. I certainly know how to treat a woman. How to kiss a woman. How to be patient, how to be kind, how to open doors. and pull-out chairs. How to see with my ears: what she says, tone and inflection and even more importantly, what she doesn't say! There are times to be quiet and just listen. I don't have to go and fix everything, because if we're together, she's smart enough and strong enough to figure it out on her own. but when she needs my support, she knows I will move mountains for her. That said, I had to end my engagement recently which left me a bit raw. I'm not looking for "serious" or any of the entanglements that go with that. I'm just finding my groove again.

My Ideal Person She would be a strong and independent woman yet still knows when and how to ask for help. Caring and compassionate towards others yet recognizing there is a line between being generous and being taken advantage of. A tremendous sense of humor and the ability to laugh at and admit her own mistakes; and she has to be able to keep me humble and point out mine. My ideal would be able to see around the "corner" to anticipate thigs that could build into problems later and something very important have a normal (plus) sex drive. Not caught up in society or " the Jones' ". This is again where the ability to "show, ask & tell." communicate come into play.